Your W is really pushing you and testing your boundary! She just won't stop.
Simply say, "Thank you for this information. This looks interesting and I appreciate you looking it up. I wish to reiterate my stance that I am willing to do counseling as long as the OM is completely out of the picture. This has not changed at all."
I wanted to circle back what Sandi said that I really, really like a lot. Please use this script the next time W suggests watching TV together.
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
When your W has expectations of watching the TV with you or any other activity you two did in the past.......have you just looked at her and said, "There is nothing I want more than for our M and our lives to be healthy and normal again. However, as long as you are actively involved with another man, I cannot pretend to enjoy a shared activities just the two of us, as if all is well. It is painful for me and feels like a mockery to what we once had." This should not be said with anger or coldness. It should be said lovingly, but not pitifully.
