Originally Posted By: Rzrback
Ironically enough, OM JUST NOW texted her. I'm not going to interfere this time. His habit of texting her right before our MC sessions is really starting to piss me off.


In the safety of MC sessions, it is appropriate to bring up concerns about the OM and how you feel it is incredibly disrespectful to have a third party in the M. As a matter of fact, you're not willing to live in an open marriage. Your MC therapist needs to know this so s/he can work with this information. I hope this MC specializes in infidelity and is SBT (solution-based therapy) based on Gottman principles.