New to DB - Need Help! Pt 2

[NH115]

I like the 007 reference. I've always been a James Bond fan.

We were having a halfway productive R talk last night; about our actual issues, not the OM. He got mentioned somehow. I noticed that she's been speaking in more detached, introspective tones about OM. She wonders what it means about herself that she's so attracted to a man that she knows is bad news. She no longer sounds like a teenager when she talks about him. When I saw that she doesn't seem as infatuated with him as she used to be, I succumbed to temptation and tried to go in for the kill. I kept things calm, I wasn't angry or strident, but I was pretty clear that I see him as a charming-looking man but ultimately a weak little boy. Still bad judgement on my part. I had managed to go almost an entire weekend without uttering his name.

We've only been to MC twice so far. We're scheduled through the end of this year with the therapist. Insurance covers it so I'm not too worried about the cost. I want to see what comes out of our sessions, maybe something will happen there that will encourage my W to resolve that issue. Ultimately she's going to have to do it herself anyway.

Ironically enough, OM JUST NOW texted her. I'm not going to interfere this time. His habit of texting her right before our MC sessions is really starting to piss me off.