I want to leave something in your mind for each time you open your mouth to "attack" the OM.
Each time you do that, it just makes W feel drawn more to the OM and defend him more. Attacking H, in her mind, isn't attractive at all. Be calm and cool like 007 with a stirred martini. To aid you, pretend that OM doesn't exist in your mind at all.
I looked past Ms. Wonka's OW and I never, never brought up her name. Still to this day, I still do not freakin' acknowledge the OW. She is like a fingernail to the chalkboard. That's how much I hate her!
I digress...
About the MC, do you feel that you and W are getting anything out of it considering that she's in an EA with OM?