Raine, I'm very happy to read your update. You are an inspiration to all who read your postings. I wouldn't expect you to return here and report updates often as you are working on your marriage and that's far more important right now.
Congratulations and Happy Thanksgiving!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.