W asked for a chat about kids and was very basic stuff and then con turned to her decision to leave. She said she has gained nothing by leaving save she has no one checking on her She said she is amazed at my changes and impressed at the person I have become. Even though she thiught I was a good person before. She cries the whole way through these convs and keeps saying she is in a fog and what a terrible person she is for leaving the kids.
She went on to say if I find someone new she would not be able to be friends with me and could not come to the house as it would be to upsetting for her. I told her meeting someone else was the farthest thing from my mind
I have detached like a vet but I have told her she is missed by the whole house.
She keeps talking about a MLC or being in the middle of a mental breakdown
Very hard to deal with but I have my kids so I'm the lucky one
