So my last thread ended with me making a stunning lapse in judgement by pursuing my WAW in a way I really didn't need to do. Coupled with my desire not to leave well enough alone. I kept missing a piece of "The Last Resort Technique" in my brain. I thought: "Well, I should try to do 180s on our affection issues since that's what she told me was one of the main issues, because you're supposed to do that according to the book and 'The Last Resort' technique is last right?" I missed a passage. Glossed over too fast (Mr Bond you have me dead to rights on that). The Last Resort was to halt the dynamic that is going to drive her away. Not a way to work on the issues. I have to wait on that...and that is a hard thing to do. Thank you all for your feedback and for being somewhat patient with me. I'll keep at this.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
