Sandi, What is not working is jumping in too quick, and I realise this.. I have to remember that I have to be in it for the long haul.. I have to get my head around slowing down..

To me, it seems to be the only thing I keep mucking up on.. It is damn hard not to take action when I see things slowly getting better though, but I will try my hardest not to do it..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..