Wow, what an intense weekend you guys have had. Sounds like you made some real progress, UC in being able to "hear" your wife.

My wife moved out at the very beginning so, no your DB journey is most certainly not over if she moves out.

May I caution you on one comment you made. "Since she seems set on living out her dreams of promiscuity and proving her independence" I dont think she has dreams of promiscuity at all nor is it *proving* independence. I think it's just the very act of *being* independent that she's craving. Work on getting that thought out of your head. It will not serve you well later and will come out as a snark towards her.
She sounds a bit like my wife and I am such a dominant personality she just wants to be free. I am working as hard and as fast as I can to use my personality in a more positive manner for those that have to live around me.

Although she may be moving out, I see the lessons learned about communicating with her better to be a good thing.

Good job.


Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3