That's quite a long mea culpa! So glad that you are hearing this from him and even though I know it sometimes stirs things up for you- processing through it can only help your healing in the long run.

I loved the office decorating story! Wish we could post pics on here- I'd love to see it.

Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown