Dealing with the kids non stop is too much to bear. I can't even imagine having 3.

Go easy on yourself. You are only 1 person. Kids are gonna fight and be bratty and are gonna make you nuts. That would be the same if you and your stbx were still together.

I too want a no strings attached relationship. I'm too scared to share for real with anyone.

You are not alone.

We think your great:)

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13