I think I need you to understand, hard though it is that an EA or PA in M is an affair. You are permitted to have some distress, it's horrid, hurtful and thoroughly wayward behaviour.
And it will hurt to hear that. It will hurt very much, it's truly out of order.
Taking the moral high ground could be detrimental and get in the way of your detachment. Facing our own role in the break up of our M is important so we can not get in our own way to piecing and beyond.
Rationalising OM as bf however swift the switch may help in the short term but is unlikely to get you where you want to go.
Wonka is helping you get where you need to go and I believe coming from a good place. She asks a valid question of you.
Best for you Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 11/24/1402:19 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW