I am wondering what is it that you are feeling "hurt" by up there? Hurt that I don't agree with your view point and call it out as I see it. I still stand by my stance that your rationalization is questionable at best.
Just don't get how you are saying that your W isn't having an affair because she "made a clean break" when the facts are that you two are still married and she brought a third party in the marriage. And you seem perfectly content with that thought process.
Originally Posted By: Mozza
One other thing I might clarify: Where we live and in our minds, my W is not having an A at the moment. She left me, then she got together with this OM. It's not even an OM, by our standards: it's her new BF and I'm her XH.
If you're okay with that, then maybe we should step back and let you live your life in an open marriage and stop wasting our time here. You can't have it both ways.
