Thanks for the clarification. That's exactly what I said and I'm very happy with my message.
I told my W that her happiness is my priority and, yes, she needs to know that it is more important to me than her being unhappy with me. That I will never suggest to her that she should come back with me if it means being unhappy. That I don't stand in the way of her happiness. And I don't know about my "approval" of her OM : it's done and I accept it -- who's asking for my approval? Did I have an approval right I didn't know about?
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.