Heather, I'm glad you didn't sugar coat how you felt w/D20. She had a hand in what transpired between your father and you and she needs to own her part in it. I don't understand why she was mopey and angry when she knows exactly what she did. But, time will tell what she does next when she's angry.
Have you figured out how you are going to move forward with the conversation w/your father? Please do not put it off because you don't know what the future may hold and you may need his support again.
On the other hand, I'm happy that you and the girls went tubing. It was something fun and unexpected and all of you needed this to lighten up a bit.
I do hope that things will settle down so that you can enjoy Thanksgiving. I hope this week will be a better one for you. Keep climbing that mountain because soon you'll reach the top!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
