Thanks both!

Just "Happy birthday" would be inflammatory. She already complained that I'm curt and avoiding with her, which only reinforces connected behaviors she disliked in the relationship. Also, she sent me a longer message on my birthday, a sign of what she expects.

In the end, I sent her the supportive message. Let's see where that leads.

Last edited by Mozza; 11/23/14 05:14 PM.

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.