Just "Happy birthday" would be inflammatory. She already complained that I'm curt and avoiding with her, which only reinforces connected behaviors she disliked in the relationship. Also, she sent me a longer message on my birthday, a sign of what she expects.
In the end, I sent her the supportive message. Let's see where that leads.
Last edited by Mozza; 11/23/1405:14 PM.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.