I have not written about my dealings with my W in a while, and so here is my update. There is one dating site that you can actually Google the dating profiles of its members, and my W was on this site for the past several months. I Googled her pseudonym last night and she is no longer showing up on there.
I saw W on Friday afternoon when I picked up the kids. She was still in her pajamas with no make-up (which is unusual for her). I worked a bit on her computer to try and get her Photoshop working - I was unsuccessful. There was a file missing, and I've emailed her a couple of ways to fix this problem this weekend.
I am only observing, no conclusions being drawn, or expectations given. Nothing has changed in my dealings with W, and so this is all I can see right now.
