No one but his mistress, alcohol, will be enough for him. He may get girlfriends who enable his drinking but they will have no emotional connection other than that because he can't create those kinds of connections.

He may decide at some point that he's ready to change but this has nothing to do with you.

Do you attend AlAnon? (you may have answered this already, I've just skimmed your thread time-to-time.)


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss