W's birthday today. Mine was a month ago and she sent me an email. I want to use that opportunity and she'd be shocked if I didn't send her my wishes. Also, 25yearsmlc made me realize that I shouldn't stick to closely to the "limited contact" guideline given that I was too distant in the R itself. One thing to consider though, is that my W is in a R with an OM for about 2 months. He spends every day at her apartment and calls her "my queen". So she's probably in love right now.
Her message was kind of sweet: asking me if I had plans, if I was taking the day off, hoping I'd have a good day and that the weather would get better. She even closed with "kisses". At the time, it hurt me because it was so distant compared to what it was in the R that dissolved just a month prior.
I'm really struggling to find the right message, tone, length, words. Let me work on it and report. Suggestions welcome.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
