Hey SP, I find that online I can be flirtier (is that a word lol?)than in person. I can build up a rapport before meeting and I've noticed that the crazy comes out in women fast if you message with them a few times and that saves you meeting someone who's not nice, ready or a gameplayer. On the downside it's hard to gauge the unknown too. For example, the lady I saw last week stopped messaging me the day before our date. Turns out she'd messaged me from work and for some reason the messages weren't showing up. I was rather anxious about whether we even had a date anymore lol. When I actually met her for dinner it just wasn't there for me. I also have found in my seven years of singlehood that women go to courses or events e.g. Yoga class and their walls are up real high. They're here to do yoga and that's that. I once took a Latin Line Dance class and had a lady come over and start making conversation and the teacher, who was apparently into me (yeah, I could actually tell lol) came over interrupted and any time that lady tried to interact she'd break it up! Otherwise it's been a dry pool...and as far as going to church to meet women, it hasn't given me any prospects really. Women don't want to sh!t where they live and I don't blame them. I do know some people who've met their spouses at church but I haven't got much action there lol. Anyway, be good to yourself and love thyself first. What will be will be. Good luck.
