Oh My Tad, You didn't take her to the right grocery store? LOL!
My ex threw so many reasons as to why he was leaving us I couldn't keep them straight! I think the excuses changed with the wind as far as he's concerned.
And yes the projection they aim at is us pretty big! Everything he accused me of, he had done or was doing in some sort of fashion! Talk about crazy making.
Yet as I look back on it, when things were the most painful and I was the most confused and devastated, was when I took this all seriously! I really thought I had to have done this to cause him to leave!
It will always remain sad, that once was has turned out to be what now is Tad. But it can't be fixed unfortunately. I guess all we can consider is that this was one serious, long and hard life lesson for us, and we are much better off and stronger for it.