I can not believe the things he accused me of and blamed me for, yet dear OW is completely guility of being those things 10 fold!
This made me chuckle. I don't know much about OM, but my XW accused me of a lot of stuff: controlling and stuff like that. SHE was the controlling one. I was basically accused of what she was. That = projection.
If it makes you feel any better, XW left me because I never "took her to the right grocery store." When I heard this, that's when I KNEW she was nuts.
And yes, MLC should be considered a mental illness.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13