Believe me I am on board. Especially after these last two days.

My only issue at this point is taking too-aggressive actions that would no longer be DBing. When I got home earlier, there were a pile of dishes in the sink so I did a bunch of them, then went upstairs to change and type the above post. When I came down, she snapped at me "I didn't ask you to come home to wash the dishes and disappear upstairs for ten minutes." I didn't take the bait. Got the kids ready and went out for pizza. While out, she texted "I left. Don't worry, I'll just be sleeping. Don't forget the tooth fairy." (Oldest lost a tooth today) So OM can take care of her. I wish him luck.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together