25...thank you for the reply...it probably is my ego...I don't know. I guess a small part of me feels I could have somehow prevented all of this. If I had never mentioned the triggers, if I had only blah blah blah. Yes, I know it is ridiculous but that is how I am. This is so out of H's character in my mind or has he always been this man?? One question I have about your post was where you said the "but in his eyes the fight has already been lost, and he is right." What do you mean? I have already filed, and moved out with the kids. He goes days and days without seeing them. When this all hit the fan he told me that I "overeacted" when I saw him at the bar. It is like he plants these seeds in my head just to give me a little doubt.
Just finding him at the bar was enough for me to know I was done. For good. Thanks.
