Hi BF, Just a warning and I'm not saying this is the case with your H, but my W felt she had a "right" to take the things she felt were "hers" (as well as things that she KNEW she had no right to) and did so when she came to the house when I wasn't there. You may think he won't but don't be so sure. They really can't think of anything but themselves at this time and think nothing of how you may feel about it. Just be careful. I had to get my lawyer to file an order to stop my W and even then she just didn't see why she didn't have a "right" to just take what SHE saw as hers. Just be careful.