still holding on - 5

[HPoirot]

Thanks HP
probably too much - I've done that too often I guess.
Sometimes I just want to continue a dialog.

I doubt she will respond to this in any way thought - she rarely does.

Yeah don't look to continue dialog. I know it feels great when Ws are talking with us. It is a trap because you can go too far into the friend zone. More than anything your W wants to feel heard and accepted. When she says something like what she said... don't lecture or try to fix her. You did that. Just validate what she said. It tells her you are listening and accepting her as she is now. That goes a long way b/c you are being strong enough to accept her even though she knows you don't like the choices she is making. That is attractive. You just tried to change your W. Enough of that and they will punish you (by not responding to your flowery love texts).