It's time to think about what is best for Bright. Accommodating your h in some things is okay, but if you don't want him in the house, the best thing to do is leave the mail in a place outside where he can pick it up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
