Bright, Put the mail in a small box or trash bag and sit it on your front porch or somewhere outside where he can get it very easily. There is no reason for him to come in the house at this point in time. Once you decide where you are going to place the mail on Monday morning, notify him and tell him where to look for it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
