Thanks Wonka. I'm not overly proud of how I did this week, but I'll just keep going. What I posted was not to replace Sandi's rules, but rewriting things like this helps it solidify in my head. I included a couple of things that someone in another forum gave to me as well.

My weekend with her has actually been somewhat pleasant. She's not exactly affectionate, but I see glimmers of the old W. She seems to be happier with herself this weekend too.

At Thanksgiving next week I'll be saying a silent prayer of thanks for you and all the posters here. This place is my haven right now
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Rzr,

That's an interesting way of reframing Sandi's list. Whatever works for you!

I do see a lot of parallels between you and HP. I must be careful to check who's thread I am in before composing a post! crazy

You're doing really good. Sure, there'll be some hiccups along the way. I think you're slowly starting to understand DBing in general. Keep going! smile


Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood