Originally Posted By: TSquared2
I get that.

How can you fill that void yourself, without W, kids, pets, goldfish?

How can you meet your own needs? smile


That's the hard part now isn't it? I'm filling the "void" by spending more time out with friends and family, meeting new people myself (thru 'Divorce Care'), and learning new things - I've been to 2 cooking classes which I really enjoy. I plan on continuing the cooking classes in the future.

But it's not the same as sharing my life with someone else.

Maybe if I joined a Rock Band, oh wait, that's already been done - by you. It must be fun, but does that come anywhere near to filling the "void" your W left in your life?


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace