Thanks job for the information. My H was not a narcissist but he did show some tendencies. At the start of all of this I thought that perhaps I was just crazy all these years and he hid being a narc for 25 years.
The other interesting thing is their sense of time. It occurred to me last night that H has been gone for five months with a only few random texts to his kids. I don't think he has a true sense of how long that is to most families.
Ggrass and Kimmerz. It is a ton of irrational thinking to have to accept from the one person you thought was the most trustworthy isn't it?
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
