Ggrass on devotee's thread said it wasn't the person she was dealing with, it was the alcohol. Does it help to think that's what's happened here? That your H is so lost and so hurting -- with his OWN stuff, nothing to do with yours -- and has so little faith in himself that he put alcohol in the drivers seat. I hope he gets better soon. I'm glad you're protecting your family.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.