I don't know what to say but my h1 was an alcoholic. In the early days I thought you drank on weekends and then if sober all week your not an alco.
As time wore on h1 always drank gg always drove, often he spewed in public leaving me feeling embarised and feeling like I could not trust him. He had anger issue as he got older. He refused to get help and his drinking became more all or nothing. if I don't have any I'm not a drunk and don't have problems. He got to the stage he would have one and be unable to stop.
His life went on after he had a accident he said "I will never work again" so far 18 year later this is still true. I Left him. He's still sitting in the same place he was left, 11 years ago. He plain doesn't want to do the work.
If he doesn't see a problem he thinks he doesn't need to do anything. He needs to see there is a reason to do anything until they know they need to do it you cannot do anything. The only reason why h1 doesn't drink now is he cannot afford it. Simple.
He has slighty address his anger, but now he's weak and refuses to even disagree with any one especially me. Mind you a guy I work with days said he would be terrified to pi$$ me off as he knows I would be dangerous! Lol quote "I would kick his ar$se"
It took 5 or 6 years of h1 ranting I lost every thing, before he even started to walk it.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
