Move forward with caution and make your feelings about a divorce 100% clear at the consultation.
Do not allow yourself to be trapped into agreeing to something because it sounded right or because you are being given options. You always have the option of disagreeing with the options.
What happens in these circumstances is people are put in a negotiating position: If I give you A then you give me B.
This is a great technique if you have reached an emotional state where a negotiation is what you are seeking. But if you cannot live with any negotiation please do not negotiate. It will slide you into a depression because you have no one to blame if you make a decision you don't like.
When we are forced to live with decisions others make it is maddening. But there is not regret. Never do anything you regret.
