So after reading another one of 25's posts about all of her GAL activities I realized my excuses aren't going to cut it with me anymore. I found a couple of places in my area to volunteer (one I have been "thinking" about for awhile) and pulled up the paperwork. Also talked to a friend about doing a concealed carry course and taking archery lessons. Volunteering is free so no worry about the $$! Did not sign up for the photography course I wanted to do, there is another one in January...think I just need to do it! I've been wanting to that for a few years!

Today, H was doing something in the garage and I did not ask if he needed help like I have been. Instead, I jumped in the shower and got ready, decent clothes and make-up and walked out the door and said "see ya!" He asked where I was going and I said to run a few errands! Which was the truth, but then I went and sat on the beach reading for awhile! When I got home I noticed he had showered and changed, he asked if I had eaten, when I said I hadn't he asked if I wanted to go to lunch again. I did, I'm thinking maybe next time I should say no...but I like to so not sure about that!

I went off to my softball game and later got a text from him (very rare) telling me about the drama at the neighbors!

D13 has another tournament this weekend so we will be spending the whole day together again tomorrow!

I am going to try to take 25's other advice and asking why....very hard, but I guess when I start really GALing I won't worry about it as much!


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since