"As for fights. My wife says we fight all the time. I can't reconcile that."
What do you mean you can't "reconcile that"? Did you fight often or not? If you raised your voice to her, that's a fight even if you don't think it is.
"In my opinion we fight about little things and only here and there."
That's YOUR opinion which doesn't matter right now. If you were in her shoes, what would you think?
"I actually confronted her today to see if there was someone else. I could be wrong but I did believe her when she told me there wasn't. Our mutual friends whom i've sought advice from also don't see her as the type."
There is no "type" of people in affairs. Whether or not she has one, keep in mind that every person on here whose spouse is in an A would tell you that their spouse was the type who would NEVER cheat on them.
"As for our fights. She recently started doing some distance learning. She asks me for help as i'm college educated and we would often get frustrated with each other."
In other words you weren't patient with her. When it came out, did it maybe sound like you were "smarter" than her?
"She also said i'm too controlling. Although I can only think of one time when I had a problem with her doing something."
That's not what controlling means. It also means when you act like you know better than her and don't listen to her opinions and compromise.
"Other then that, simple bickering about house chores and little things around budgeting but nothing that I would consider serious."
it doesn't matter what you consider serious. In terms of the bickering, what were the issues about the house work and budgeting?
"We are not rich but certainly don't have what I would call money problems. Our bills get paid on time each month."
Money isn't the problem. Do you criticize her for her spending?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
