I am thinking about emailing my W. She moved out 8 weeks ago and the only contact we have had is 2 emails sent by her that I responded to very briefly and about 12 hrs later.

When she moved out there was no talk like "I'm leaving don't ever contact me again".

I have not attempted any contact from my side and if I do email her it would be something short like

"Good evening, I hope this message finds you well. just dropping you a note to tell you that there is some mail here at the house for you. ME".

I feel I want to do this to see if I get any response not any other reason.

The last email from her was 5 weeks ago and she asked if she had any packages or mail I answered "yes there is mail but no packages."

She has yet to come and get it.

I could really use some advice on what to do now. It feels weird that I haven't talked with my W in 8 weeks. I know she needs her space and I am giving it to her but I don't like it.

I am ok 98% of the time it is just that 2% that has me questioning how I am approaching this S at this time.

Any help would be appreciated greatly!


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014