I so agree LT, thanks! She only lives 2 miles from the school so that in my mind wasn't being "driven around". That's why I told her she can go on a "date" only if she meets him there. I would take her and pick her up. I know that this is going to be something that isn't going to just go away. W and I are going to need to be on the same page on this going into the future.
I like your states rules. Here in TX you are allowed one person under 21 to drive with you (not a relative) the first year. Too bad, would have been easier if I could just tell D14 it was against the law!
