still holding on - 5

[u-turn]

I am thinking of sending a reply to her message:

"I agree that it is comfortable to feel this way and it's all we've had our entire adult lives, but I do not see how that is a bad thing if we grow together.

I've said this before, one of the key parts of a marriage is forgiveness. We have both made mistakes and bad decisions in our lives that we have learned from.

I feel that if we are both in this we can work through this. I would like to hear any solutions that you may have.

I do not agree that you are not worthy of my time or love. I do not see it that way. That is my decision to make.

But I do feel that I cannot keep trying to pressure you to be my wife again. I do not want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me."