Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

So she calls and asks about something of mine her name is on, an account at the bank. She asks if I can go tomorrow with her and we can take care of that. (I know she is working her task list at this point) I asked her if it was a problem that her name is on there. She said no, I just figured if you had time we could go up there together. ( 45 min trip each way) I told her it wsa on my list, but not way up in priority and that tomorrow is not a good day. I know she has other things to do and I would more than likely not worry about it until after she is moved and settled. She reminded me that she does not look at that account and has not in months. Told me not to worry, because she will continue not looking. (weird) I told her I trusted her and have no reason to think anything different, no big deal.She said just let her know in advance when I wanted to go, so she could plan. I said well, I am not going to wait until the day before, I will give you plenty of time to schedule.
She then goes on to ask about other things in our (once) home since she is moving soon. I told her I would get the other things soon, and named off 5 items. She had forgotten about a few of them and said she had some of the others on her list. I reminded her of the boxes at my home that she asked me to save. She said she planned on packing on ...day and would get them at some point before then. She said she would have to see when she has time alone (w/o S3.5) to pack and would get them prior to that. She follows up asking about the days I am off next week which we talked about yesterday. I verified and was quiet. She said "okay, I guess that is all for now. Have a good weekend." I said "okay, bye"
I then realized I did not tell her have a good weekend or a "you too". I just did not feel it. We ARE not friends in my book and her "reaching out" is weird. She talked to me about all this holiday stuff yesterday.

Mixed signals? Keeping me on the phone for what? I WANT her in my life and I need her love, not just friendship. Am I going about this all wrong? Sandi2? Wonka? Mr.Bond? females in the DB group that have been there? What do you think?