Thanks, Lisa. Yeah, I'm confused by the timeline, too. Not sure if his wife wrote the wrong month in her email or if my H didn't know the last time we met up. It's possible; these friends live in the US and so we don't talk super frequently. My H and I did do the usual family catch up so I think it would have come up if he knew then. If he found out after we met up then it's highly likely he didn't tell me…he's not initiating contact.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014