Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

Thanks for that. I know that this will all be okay next year, no matter what happens. I just know I went with her wants and got the D. She kept saying that I did not hear her...she did not want to be married anymore. She loves me, and has no one else, nor is looking, just wants her space and freedom.
I, and her father, brother, my C all feel the high pressure job and a head strong toddler pushed her to make a quick decision to ease her stress. Now I am letting her be (I'm dark)and I feel she sees the writing on the wall. I have given her the rope and walked away with head held high, yet quiet.
Through her struggles a few weeks ago w/ S 3.5 I sent her an email. The first one in several months that had nothing to do with kids or D, just feelings. I said..."I know I am struggling with the kids in these transitions. I know you must be hurting too. I hope last night wasn't too bad on both of you."

her reply was ....
"Yes, things are definitely tough. Last night got better a little while....
after you left. I know it's hard on the kids too."

There is proof she is just as stressed, as well as the stress DVD and CD from her therapists office I saw on her table a few weeks ago.