Thanks Job, I appreciate your posting to me.... I am going to work overtime to try to stabilise things for my son. I also intend to contact the child-support agency to see whether they can enforce anything and maybe go the court route too.. although it's probably not worthwhile.
ATM, I feel kind of traitor-like - we are on hold until S16 finishes his exams in 10 days... then I will have to tell him that the last few days of school could be the last he ever has there. The whole sitch is very upsetting.
S16 will likely ball me out for not telling him as soon as I knew. He is hyper-sensitive to people 'lying' to him, these days.
In other news, I found a $100 cheque for S16 slipped under the front door yesterday afternoon. We were all home, but presumably, XH just put it there and ran.
How ridiculous is that?
He stops the kid's schooling the day before, breaks his heart and life in pieces, and then has the gall to think that $100 will be a good idea to show that he still cares.
Also, this is the third day that OW has been overseas - and the third day in a row that he has contacted us (phone, email, f-to-f and dropping off at the house) after weeks/months of NC.
