I think you are spot on. He may be hurting, but it's only because of the pain HE is feeling as opposed to the pain he caused. I still see him lost in his world of victimization.
Ok. I will STFU. It's not going to make things worse.
It's so hard. It's like seeing a glimpse of someone you thought was dead.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson