"You say you love me/us but I think that it is comfortable and what we know. You say you can get past it but no matter what there will always be doubt and I don’t blame you. I am not worthy of your time or your love"
Any thoughts or opinions? Thanks!!
U-turn
This line jumped out at me. Seems there is some guilt there, and almost like a temp check of .. can he get over the OM without punishing me the rest of my life ... coupled with I screwed up and do not deserve to be loved after what I have done.
I agree ... you have to validate here ... and I do not think you are at a point you can let all your hurt out on the table as it seems she is just trying to see if she wants to do the work it will take for R. From what I read here ... the first phase is DBing, and its hard .. but the next phase of piecing is even harder and full of rocks on that hill. Both have to be 100% all in before that path can be traveled. .... I think she may be trying to still test where you are.
