The Black Knight

[LoisB]

Here's what I think...especially while I'm stressed with all that's going on...I see both points.

He can contact the kids directly.

Ok. Maybe the NC isn't bad for now.

I think it's best for me to remain NC. I do better when he is at a distance and other people, like the atty, have to handle him. Even if this is legit...he is still toxic and bad for me...

And, He!!, I did pay $3,350 so far to protect myself from his crazeee. If he is waking up, then, it's the move and my move toward independence from him that's helped it along.

NC is the way to go. He needs to sit in his shid.

I may respond, though, that he can contact kids without me. In the event of an emergency? Contact me email? Do I give my email? Or just tell him to text if there's an emerg.

Maybe...

Me: Both our girls are capable of communicating to you if they choose. You haven't shown much interest in the past 6 mos. to a year. It's up to them. If there's an emergency, contact my atty or send a text.