My situation is much like yours, other than the EA. We loved and had no real issues. She lost herslf in our family and finally went to an IC. This was a feminist type that helped her see she needed to have a stronger voice and say what she felt. No holding back. I went through Pro-se and mediation was done by just us. If you can put your feelings aside for a moment. Read thru things and come up with a settlement, there will be no need to mediate. (as far as I understand it) I sat down and did it with WAW a few months ago. I had an attorney friend look over and suggest things I may have not thought about. My WAW thought I was dragging my feet, but I reminded her, that I do not want this and if she DOES, then she had to get the ball rolling. In other words, make it clear this is not what you want, just don't rush through your decisions.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
