Rppfl, My wife is just short of refusing to spend more than a few minutes at the house with the kids. I have offered to leave but nothing doing. I guess it makes her uncomfortable.

The only routine we have at the moment is they are supposed to spen the night Saturday nights with mommy, when she can pull it off work wise. Is is wanting to start adding Tuesdays as a hang out day too. So we'll see how that goes.

Thank you Labug, I owe her more grace than even I probably know.
I have always been there for my kids. I love my family. The kids were a huge factor in me getting and staying sober. I think the wife always hoped I'd do it for her, too. And to some extent I did. Because if I didn't quit, she was done.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3