I am very happy to read your posting. I had a smile on my face as I read each paragraph, but especially the one about your w's turn towards happiness. FY, this is a huge baby step in the right direction.

I'm glad to see that you and your group are still biking even while it's getting colder outside. I'm sure your restoration of the bike looks great and what a wonderful hobby to get into. You can see your progress from start to finish and when you are done, you can step back and be proud of what you've done.

You have to remember that MLCers tend to lose time in the tunnel. They trip is on a slow clock, whereas we are on the real time and days, months and even years are so very different for them. As she continues to wake up, she'll begin to see just how much time has passed, as well as how things have changed. She's like Rip Van Winkle!

Continue to do what you've been doing as it's worked for you. I do hope that you and your w will enjoy your Thanksgiving w/your sister in law and family. It should be interesting to she how well she does since this will be her first rodeo hosting it. LOL!

Take care.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.