Heather, As Lifes Twists pointed out, you want to advise your lawyer that you want him to minimize his time as much as possible as you don't have funds to continue this back and forth for another six months. He needs to understand that you are the client/boss here and only you can authorize additional work when necessary.
There are plenty of us who have gone before you in the divorce arena who can provide advice and hopefully try to help you save some money. It's not easy, but you've got to separate your emotions from the business deal at hand.
As for items that your h has identified, well, that's on him. He should have removed them when he first left, or at least removed them once he was settled in his new place. He's had ample time to come and get them. This is a moot point as you have mentioned them to him several times and he didn't make a move to come get them. Once this is addressed (again) w/your lawyer, it should not be brought up again and I would advise him of this. It's like my xh constantly talking about missing mail when he had 5 mailing addresses. I nipped it in the bud and advised the lawyers that he should put in a change of address and that I wasn't going to address the issue again. You have to take this bull by the horns and nip this tool and other property situation in the bud. If you don't, it will continue on and on. It's the only things he has to keep niggling at you with and it's adding up $$$ wise.
I do hope you are feeling better today. I know it seems like the world is tumbling down, but it's not. We are here for you.
